At The Anchor Practice we understand that a child’s behaviour can be best understood as a communication to the adults around them about the nature of their inner, emotional life, which can often be very different to the real-life situation in which they find themselves.
We do not seek to influence a child’s behaviour without first understanding the specific underlying emotional difficulty that this behaviour is communicating.
When we feel that psychotherapy would be helpful for a child, the goal of the treatment is for the child to be able to understand their emotions more clearly, and to develop more fully. Child psychotherapy involves offering a safe, reliable and thoughtful space in which a child can play freely and be helped to understand and make sense of the significance of their thoughts and feelings. The un-structured play situation enables us to help a child understand what internal problems lie at the root of their behaviour, and a child can then become more able to put these feelings into words rather than act them out.
We also offer parallel sessions to parents, in which we work together to achieve a better understanding of the child’s difficulty. For example, why they might behave in a certain way, or show a specific set of symptoms. We feel that thorough understanding is paramount in relieving distress and promoting development.